Musician Billy Preston frequently remarked, “if you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with.” Famed recording artist, Stephen Stills, asked if he could use that phrase which became the name of his very famous song, “Love The One You’re With”. During the year the song was released, it reached #14 in the top twenty pop singles.
I’ve always liked “Love The One You’re With”, and for quite a while it seemed to me to represent quite a mature and spiritual point of view: with gratitude, being in surrender to the present moment, loving who is in your life.
After I started using the FlorAlive® transformational flower frequencies and experienced many positive shifts in my life, my point of view about that song changed. I saw that goals or ideals I had which previously seemed impossible were possible, and especially in the area of relationships. I began to see that which I desired could, in fact, manifest. The premise of “Love The One You’re With” is the subject of the blog today.
I am touching of the subject of how we can rapidly and safely “clear” ourselves so that in the area of intimate partnership we do not have to “just settle” for what may appear in our life.
We can very clearly create the ideal, based on spiritual and physical resonance, and allow it to manifest. If we held the message of Stephen Stills’ song to be true – that we may not be able to be with the one we truly love – that really represents a level of subconscious defeat. FlorAlive® is all about eliminating subconscious defeat.
It’s quite an art to be able to be completely present and appreciative of the current situation that we have (“the one we’re with”) and still leave room for the evolution of our life to move into progressively better stages.
In terms of conceptual frameworks taught by modern transformational thought leaders, we can benefit by combining the wisdom of Eckhart Tolle with the teachings of Abraham as transmitted by Esther and Jerry Hicks. The latter describe how we must move through consistently better feeling stages, gratefully acknowledging each step of improvement. The former (Power of Now, A New Earth) strips off the “Emperor’s Clothes” so that our “trickster ego self” – the true cause of our defeat at the unconscious level – is exposed and eventually dissolved.
An amazing finding that emerged in a 2007 study I conducted (see “The L.A. 100 Phenomenon” on the FlorAlive.com site) revealed something that many of us quietly suspect but hesitate to mention. Though it is essential to be mindful and to practice very important teachings such as those just listed, despite our best efforts, many limiting beliefs frequently are not removed by such practice.
What is astonishing about FlorAlive® in the area of thought transformation is that it accomplishes something rare and very valuable. Specific FlorAlive® flower frequencies can target the exact limiting beliefs (such as unconscious blocks to ideal relationships) that have been holding back an important part of our life and that we had no idea were there – because they reside in the unconscious – or if we did know about it, we could not devise a way to remove them.
The FlorAlive.com site mentions that we have in the simplest way three basic stages for the most effective thought transformation.
–First we have to recognize and eliminate the frequencies of stored memories of trauma and or abuse: physical or emotional or both. The combination essence, ReviveAll™ is a great place to begin elimination of damaging memories.
–Second, we have to re-awaken the receiving process that has been turned off due to the first stage of trauma. Flower frequencies in Abundant Life 1 are important for this step.
–Once allowance and receiving have been reactivated, we can then take steps toward the third stage that is empowerment of the higher parts of ourselves. When we do that we can more actively become co-creators in our life. (The last part of the Abundant Life Program is effective for the third stage.)
So while it is true that we should certainly love whoever we happen to be with in a relationship, it is not true that we should settle for someone to love because of the unconscious belief that we could never possibly find who we would truly like to have as the love of our life.
One of the most delightful things that I see under the influence of the FlorAlive® essences is progression in people’s relationships. When people follow through with the Abundant Life Program™ that consists of five products over about four months, and then continue perhaps through another year or so with intermittent FlorAlive® essences over time, they report enormous transformation in their relationships. If they are in dysfunctional relationships, those relationships often dissolve. If they are in good relationships that are challenging, often the challenges work out more quickly and easily. And when people hold an ideal of who they would like to have in their life, reestablish receiving, and remove the frequency that draws troubled relationships (with the extraordinary flower from the forest I oversee in Central Tennessee, Maroon Bethroot), then much better relationships enter into their lives.
