Sarah, in her 40’s, came to me in a rather desperate situation. Her face was broken out in the typical “butterfly rash” suggesting Lupus, and in short, her life was just not working.  She was under enormous emotional stress.
In mind/body practice we recognize that ultimately most stress-related problems stem from either “love” or money.  From the money side of things, and with respect to features that contribute to material success, Sarah was doing just fine.  She has a pleasant appearance, a wonderful clarity in her articulation and manner of speaking (a great British accent!), and is the CEO of her own company that specializes in executive training. She is a really sharp gal.
What has been plaguing Sarah is the “love” component – issues of relationship. She mentioned that despite her best efforts she could not seem to escape attracting troubled, needy men.  She understood all the psychological ramifications of this, issues with her father, etc. etc., as she had been through therapy and had a conscious mind understanding of the source of her problems. That understanding, however, as is often the case, did nothing to change the pattern. How is it that women can know why they draw troubled relationships but so often are unable to avoid doing just that.
The answer lies in the unconscious or subconscious mind. (The teacher, Eckhart Tolle, often refers to this area of our being as the conditioned mind.) The subconscious mind stores experiences and images, sometimes from long past, that result in the “playing” of memories of those events.  When that happens a past event takes on the reality of existing in the present, and in a sense keeps regenerating itself. Identification with a stored memory as present reality generates what is called an “attractor field”.  This is an emanation of energy that draws to it a counter frequency matching its own resonance. So in the case of Sarah, her identification with dysfunctional patterns relating to her father, and the desire to satisfy needs that were never met by him, was broadcasting a field energy that was attracting just the kind of troubled relationship she wishes to avoid. This is an enormously common occurrence unfortunately, and in recent years I have seen well over 100 women in my practice confronted with the same scenario.
What still astonishes me every time I see one of these cases is that I had the grace to discover an antidote to this problem: frequencies from an astonishing wild flower that in Spring covers much of the forest of my nature preserve in Central Tennessee. The flower is a particular species of Maroon Bethroot.
You can see an actual case where I am examining a woman with a pattern of unsatisfactory relationships by looking at the following video link (The Relationship Flower.) The video shows the process of exam using self-referential statements to elicit changes in muscle strength, allowing us to measure normally invisible unconscious mind patterns. In this video, the woman being examined by me makes the statement, “I am destined to draw troubled men into my life.” The exam muscle that was initially strong stays strong after making that statement, indicating that at the unconscious level, the woman believes that to be true – that is, it is her “destiny” to have troubled relationships. Since she is unconsciously emanating that belief, that is what she will experience! This is a very sad finding, but unfortunately very common.  When drops of FlorAlive® Maroon Bethroot UNCUT Flower essence are placed lingually in the woman’s mouth, exposing her to the flower’s transformational frequencies, the muscle upon being retested with the “trouble men” phrase shows the healthy response of weakening.  In other words, the statement is no longer coherent with the subconscious belief that she had been holding for a very long time.  One to three bottles of this essence frequently change life long patterns of dysfunction in relationships that women have been unable to change, even after much effort. Quite a miracle!

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